Don't hug
So, you just ended the wonderful casual hookup, you are all tired, both of you are all lying on the bed, then you are snuggling with each other. That's where you need to stop yourself. Do not keep doing that. You and your hookup partner are not a couple. What you should do is go to the bathroom, grab your things, say goodbye, and leave.
Hug after making love is bad things because it makes the BBW dating relationship intimate. Your relationship is purely sexual, hugs are not sexual. Hugs are cute and meaningful behind, so don't do it with your adult friend finders. In addition, hug will lead people to talk to each other later. Usually, when people hug, they open their hearts and say something fragile or romantic. This kind of thing is completely forbidden in the friends with benefits relationship. If you want to open your heart, talk to them or another friend on the right occasion like without sexual contact. If you want romance, wait until a potential romantic partner appears.
If you two hug and chat with each other after hook up, you will find it hard to stop from doing it. You'll start hugging, kissing and sharing more things about yourself and soon enough you will find that you are doing that a lot more often than you are actually hooking up with your hookup partner. This is a slippery slope and there is a great chance for you to fall for your adult friends.
When you two are just friends, don't talk too much.
When you're just friends, you shouldn't talk too much. Of course, you can also text to request a weekly tinder hookup, which is more than your usual text exchange. However, you should not chat with your adult affair finders more than before. You've never texted them every day, so why would you even consider doing that now? Or why are you calling this person several times a day now? Nothing has changed between you two, except that you've seen each other naked and enjoy the physical contact. You can't be too open to the barriers of communication or you will find each other more attractive in a more romantic way.
If you talk about and reveal personal details about yourself, you become vulnerable. That's usually not a bad thing, but you're in an adult affair dating which is all about sexual connecting. When you are too open with hookup partners, you may find it is hard to stop the casual dating and when this friends with benefits thing need to be end, you may be hurt or have a hard time to heal from it.
Don't hook up with each other too often.
Obviously, the reason you choose to get into friends with benefits is because you can hook up whenever you want, and on a consistent basis. However, you need to make sure that you only make love when you want to. In general, maybe you should meet once a week, or once every two weeks. This adult affair finder is not your partner and you can't have sleep with him every day. Even if you could, you should not do that. You will easily have feelings for your hookup partners when you hook up with each other too often.