2023年5月6日 星期六

She Rejected Me When I Firstly Ask Her Out


What is the psychology of a woman after rejecting you for the first date? If it is just a polite rejection, it means that at least she doesn't hate you. She's just being a little reserved, so continue to work hard. Bring out your advantages. Communicate more often so that she can know more about you. After tried for sometime, if she still refuses, maybe you should change a target, because she is really not interested. If you want a smooth date, you must firstly change the way you get along with girls. Girls always have a certain degree of reservedness at the beginning.

Communicate more often to understand the girl's thoughts, generally narrow down the distance and strengthen the connections between you. It takes time and a better way to get along with girls. Understand her through observation. You want to date her, but she always makes excuses to shirk and never accepts your invitation, but she speaks very tactfully and politely. In this case, you should not believe that she really has no time to come on a date. This already shows that she is rejecting you. If she likes you, even if she is busy she will make time to dress up and meet you beautifully.

When you happily hang out with your friends, you still want to be alone with her, while she always brings a third person to hang out together, which shows what she is avoiding the embarrassment of being alone with you. The nicer you are to her, the less comfortable she feels in front of you. She always tell you not to be so good to her. This shows that she knows your intentions, but she doesn't like you and it is difficult to say it.

So you are rejected when you ask her out for the first time, when can you make the second move? It can be mentioned during your conversation accidentally, but the prerequisite is that she doesn't hate you, and you have a certain degree of comfort when being with her. Remember not to expose your intention when being with her. When you want to dating with a girl, you must take your time and have an order. Generally, you should firstly get to know each other, then get close to each other, then confess, develop, and then date.

At this time, it is best to retreat as advancement. You can tell her "let's hang out another time". Then you ask her out again after a month. This time, the chance of success can be very high. Girls like to be chased. If you are cold to her for a while, she will feel a little bit lost. If you ask her again, she might take the chance and hold on to it. You also want to see her tone of voice when she rejects you. Is it impatient? Or is she feels sorry in her eyes.

If it's impatient, just forget about it. If it's sorry, it's still possible. The most important thing is that you shouldn't be afraid of being rejected. If you are just friends or she doesn't have any special affections for you, acting strong and pressured will often only let her feel that "Are we familiar with each other?" and then alienate.